Domestic abuse

Domestic abuse can happen to anyone. It is not limited to any one ‘type’ of person or relationship.

In an abusive relationship, the abuser may try to control their partner using violence, intimidation and threats. They may also stop them from seeing family and friends, and from having access to money or a mobile phone. Abusers will also try to prevent other people from seeing the way they treat their partner.

The Refuge website explains the different forms of domestic abuse, and the signs to look out for. 

Concerned about someone?

If you think someone is in immediate danger from domestic abuse, dial 999 and tell the police. Contact your local neighbourhood policing team if it’s not an emergency. You can also contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline for advice and support: ring them on 0808 2000 247 at any time.

If you are in danger and unable to talk on the phone, call 999 and listen to the questions from the operator and, if you can, respond by coughing or tapping on the handset. If you’re able to, follow the prompts to press 55, which alerts the operator that you need help. (This is a national scheme called the Silent Solution.) 

Specialist support

• Women's Aid Survivors' Handbook
• Men’s Advice Line
• Galop, for people who identify as LGBT+
• Karma Nirvana, for concerns relating to forced marriage and honour abuse
• The Gov.UK website has information and advice on forced marriage
• NCHA domestic abuse services
• If you are worried that you are abusive, the Respect Helpline can support you

Many of the websites above have telephone helplines as well as email and live chat, so that you can contact them in the way that feels safest for you. 

Supporting someone else

If you're concerned about someone you know, the National Domestic Abuse Helpline explains how you can provide support.